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Compromise Thou Relationship

"A relationship based on compromise is meaningless"

Heard this phrase on TV - it made me think hard. Would you make compromise yourself to stay in a relationship with your partner?

For the things that matter, most of us believe that we are open-minded enough to tolerate doing more of what our partner wants and less of what we want. In the long run, would we be able to take the resentment, pressure, and regret? How many compromises can we make?

What we want, is freedom from the expectations of our partners - their respect for our freedom to our beliefs. Yet we must still stay together at the end of the day.

It is very important to find someone with whom you can 'click'. Choose wisely. If you keep finding yourself in the same rut in a relationship, get out of it, amiciably.

I should have realised this long ago ... sigh!